“You’re not Santa. You smell like beef and cheese! You don’t smell like Santa.”
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I had a great Christmas. Isaac, now three, loved every minute of it. He was so excited about opening presents and singing songs. It was great to be able to experience Christmas as a kid again. It truly believe Christmas is a child’s holiday. My wife had him put out milk and cookies for Santa on Christmas Eve and he was delighted to see them gone in the morning. We spent Christmas day at my in-laws and Santa came to visit in full Santa garb (a special thanks to the next door neighbor for brightening a kid’s day).
The question of the day is: Would you tell your child Santa is real?
My current position is that I will tell him the truth if he asks me, otherwise I will let him believe that Santa is real. I grew up thinking Santa was real as a child and when I found out that he wasn’t it was no big deal. I don’t ever remember my parents telling me he was real, they just let me believe what I wanted about Santa. When I grew old enough to figure it out I understood why they did it that way. I have to admit that Christmas lost a bit of the magic after I found out the truth. I personally find no problem in that, yet I know others do. What do you think? I would love to know.
Am I lying to my son by letting him believe in Santa? I could see it as a lie if I told him that he was real. Is a lie an untruth only, a manner in which you deceive someone or a combination of the two?
One thing is for certain, he knows the true meaning of Christmas, well as much as a 3 year old can understand. If you have children what have you done? If you do not have children how are you going to handle that situation? How were you personally raised and how did that effect you? Have at it.